and more spring fever
It’s the last day of our spring break here at Red Gate Farm, and you know what that means: packing, doing endless loads of laundry, eating weird combinations of food to get it out of the fridge, madly buying the odd American things we can’t seem to live without in London like gallon Ziplock bags, Fox Point seasoning, those Pennsylvania Dutch egg noodles Avery loves so much, and plenty of “stress-relief” eucalpytus and spearmint hand soap that I’m convinced is even more effective than Xanax on an anxious day. It’s certainly more expensive! My long-suffering brother in law Joel, who patiently receives parcels for us during our London months and stores them in his basement, reports that said basement is distinctly stressed-out now, since I’ve removed my stash to take it back with us.
We’ve had our last super brunch at the inimitable Laurel Diner, home of the butteriest hashbrowns, the richest corned-beef hash and the nicest staff in the world. Look what I came away with this time, how perfect to wear bellringing in London! You can bet I’ll be the only girl on my block with one of these tees.
Avery has been diligently studying, or “revising” as one says in English English, for the massive exams looming over her life next month, the dreaded GCSEs. Eleven subjects, over the course of a month, to be suffered through in the school Sports Hall under the most rigorous of conditions (no sneezing has been bandied about by the exam rumor mill, for example). The dinner table this “holiday” has been taken over by her papers, files, books, pens. We cleared off a small portion for our dinners, though. Lobsters for Nonna’s last night!
To be perfectly honest, the lobster dinner was pretty much a very expensive excuse to get Avery to photograph a lobster roll. We are making massive headway on the list of photos we need for our cookbook-in-the-making, and this one tops the list for cover image, don’t you think?
The book is to be called “Ladle to Lens: A Collaboration in the Kitchen,” and all we need now is… a publisher. That’s all.
We’ve sadly waved goodbye to Nonna, whose visit was as much fun as ever, punctuated with great cooking together, manic games of Aggravation…
She’s one of those people who makes you cooler just by watching whatever you do and making it seem interesting. Chopping garlic! Setting the table! With my mother in law by my side, even the most boring tasks take on color because she’s so intensely fascinated by everything going on around her. And she gives wonderful gifts. These little artichoke candles are my new favorite possession.
But we couldn’t keep her forever. Her real life beckons, so off she flew. Until summer!
It was time for one last party, one last gathering around the table with people we never get to spend quite enough time with, for a bagel brunch loaded luxuriously with smoked salmon. The spring light made the table so lovely.
This time the cast of characters included our dearest neighbor and friend Anne, up here all by herself to accomplish some home repairs across the road, leaving dear David and Kate behind. How hard it is to wait until summer to see them! The Elder Rollie, as he must be called now that there’s not only Young Rollie but Even Younger Rollie these days, came with Judy who brought fruit salad and daffodils, as well as her beautiful smile, one of the warmest in the world. Such dear friends, all.
And dear Matt and Laura, who brought a cake and even more importantly the most beautiful baby this side of the Atlantic. Can you just believe little Annabella, nearly a year old now…
What fun it was to have a little one crawling around here again, now that our nieces are so elderly, four and eight. Annabella raced around on all fours, finding Avery’s old dollhouse and all its accoutrements. She is just charm itself, listening intently to everything being said and smiling now and then as if at some internal happy thought.
How we feasted! Real American bagels, plenty of cream cheese, tomatoes, cucumbers, onions, avocados, the smoked salmon with fresh dill, Rollie’s delicious home-smoked bluefish. We lingered in the kitchen where Annabella was playing, sitting on various uncomfortable surfaces like the hard bench before the woodstove, the straight-backed kitchen chairs, or the floor, in my case. The power went out, naturally, as it does all the time in this crazy house, but even so, we stayed where we were.
No one wanted to leave, and we all wanted to watch the little girl enjoy the dollhouse people, so we made coffee and tea and just hung around, chatting about the state of the local government, the Land Trust, the peepers in the swamp, our families. “Well, my dad’s slowing down, naturally, as you do when you get older,” Matt said, then looked at The Elder Rollie. “Well, not YOU, maybe, Rollie!” “Yeah, that memo about slowing down, I didn’t get it!” Rollie crowed.
And when everyone else finally did depart, Rollie stayed behind to help John set up the generator, since as city folk we could not possibly go more than two hours without the internet! They entered the feared and cobweb-festooned crawl space to emerge with the magic source of energy.
Judy and I stood to one side as “the boys” got the generator going, then shouting a bit over the din, went over to inspect the new wall. How beautiful it looks! The most costly expanse of stones I can imagine, but worth it to see it standing firm now.
Should we be worried about the expanse of moss accumulating on our roof? Rollie deems not.
The boys fill up the generator with enough gas to get us through this energy emergency (the power came back on about an hour later!), happy to be playing with machinery.
The party was over, the early evening air chill. The last guest gone, the holiday over. It’s back to London for us, to ring bells and mate socks at Lost Property for me, for John to continue planning his beloved river-edge property, for Avery to take the wretched exams. And when we see Red Gate Farm next, there will be a chicken in the chicken house for the first time in half a century, I imagine. That will be worth coming back for. For now… holiday over.
Sigh… So lovely. I envy you going back to another life. It already seems like long ago that we left, 2 years. Good luck finding a publisher. Will you have stories interwoven with the recipes, or is it a straight cookbook?
OK, could I just please have that paragraph on my tombstone.? Not enough that the three of you made my visit the be all end all of what I could have wished for, now you’ve elevated my presence beyond what is really even recognizable. But I do love it.
Recipe for Red Gate Farm fun: children (of all ages!), mad games of Aggravation, cooking, talking about cooking, shopping for cooking, photographing cooking, visiting friends, friends dropping in, feeding friends (and relatives), watching weird television, laughing, more laughing, being really, really happy together. I loved it.
BTW, your post nailed the holiday.
Goodness, Work, two years? That long since we saw each other? Amazing and far too fast. Nonna, it WAS the most wonderful visit and we are so happy you enjoyed every minute of it. Lots of people, no doubt, as usual at Red Gate Farm. Onward and upward to summer!
The lobster roll does look absolutely delish.
Your holidays always sound like so much fun … but then I think you have a gift for bringing (and making) the fun wherever you go!
Bee, we’ve had so much fun working on the cookbook… it is wonderful to have a joint project in these running-away teenage years. And we DID have fun. :)