Fourth of July, at HOME!
Gosh, it’s hot! I’m not complaining, as it’s this heavy, sunny, languid sort of afternoon I long for all year long in London, which charming though it is, is too often grey, wet and cold.
Not at Red Gate Farm. The meadow fairly shimmers with humid heat, over 90 degrees in the shade.
We’ve had our Fourth of July celebrations, the first since we moved to London eight years ago. How wonderful to buy bunting and flags, hot dogs and hamburgers. At least, we bought the hot dogs and dear Anne across the road the hamburgers, fashioned lovingly by Dave. John grilled them all, nearly prostrate in the heat, and my appetite flagged a bit since I could hardly breathe. Anne produced a gorgeous dessert of real American shortcake and strawberries, raspberries and blueberries. Kate and I whipped fresh cream with vanilla. And it was a lovely day, mostly because of the company and the conversation.
Kate (just five years old): “Daddy, there’s a huge fly buzzing around my food.”
David: “That’s a horsefly, honey, a fly you can RIDE.”
Avery: “And I see a butterfly, a fly you can spread on your toast.”
We indulged in long talks about Avery’s and my cookbook project, with professional author Dave offering wisdom about agents and such. Our goal this summer is at least to put a proposal to his agent and see if we can pique her interest in “Ladle to Lens: A Collaboration in the Kitchen.” The day was delicious, sweaty, convivial and even mildly patriotic.
At the end of the day, we watched Macy’s “Fourth of July Spectacular” on the telly, and had a wonderful moment: just when you think it’s over with “God Bless America,” you’re reminded that’s it’s New York, so general American anthems are topped by the true finale: Frank Sinatra and “It’s Up to You, New York, New York”! We love that town.
The next day brought every neighbor we have, practically (Farmer Rollie had already visited earlier in the week). First we looked up from reading our books on the terrace (newly weeded by me, as my backache can attest) to see Karrie and Tyler from up the road, come to de-fly their horses in the back meadow. Their quick visit lengthened as we found books to supplement Tyler’s summer reading list, from our laden shelves filled with mine and Avery’s treasures.
Then we heard Kate’s little voice coming from the trampoline and went out to join her, Anne and David for a little impromptu jump. Complete with… water pistols.
The little girls begged me to go into the “dark and scary, plus spidery” big red barn to find Avery’s old horse jumps, so I did, and much hilarity ensued, after I hosed them down. Kate jumped as a bunny might, at first, and then cottoned onto the pony style, one leg at a time. The adults settled in for a good gossip. Then Judy, big Rollie and Little Rollie arrived! I was having too much fun to take pictures (although Avery caught me on film, enjoying the scene).
I did get a chance to thank Judy for the gorgeous plant gracing my terrace. She never forgets me.
A lovely, peaceful, friendly afternoon with a sensation that all the characters I miss during the school year had arrived onstage at last, playing their parts: the mischievous children, jokester dad, devoted local political activist, nature-loving Wonderwoman, brilliant beekeeper, everyone’s favorite grandmother. I wonder what part I play.
Of course, summer has not been properly inaugurated until we’ve made the first visit to Rich’s Dairy Farm and Ice Cream Joint. I can never stomach a whole cone or dish myself, so instead borrow from Avery’s and John’s orders. Whatever wasn’t in this peanut-buttery chocolately delight is not worth having.
Everyone feels relaxed at Rich’s.
And this morning we ushered in the second phase of our holiday by driving Avery — suitcases impossibly stuffed — to Bridgeport to catch an early train to Washington, D.C., where she will take part in two weeks of intellectual stimulation at the National Student Leadership Conference, studying for one week “Intelligence and National Security,” and another week “Political Action and Public Policy,” I think they’re called.
She is extremely excited, and I was extremely nervous, or a combination of nervous and anticipating missing her. We’ve spent SO much time together over the last few months that I know I’ll feel the wrench. However, needs must, and she is nearly 17 after all. She’s texted to say she’s safely arrived, thank goodness. And there are small compensations to her absence, mostly of a delicious variety, eating up all the foods she doesn’t like, starting with Maine lobster!
For some unknown reason — whether the intense heat, the wet spring or some other mysterious Connecticut phenomenon — the day lilies which are normally finished by the time we arrive, are abundant and dramatic this year and by no means exhausted.
And the fern bed? I have never, ever seen it so dramatic or so lush. As Avery pointed out, “There could be several dead bodies under there.”
Yet another of our cherished summer institutions has just got a little closer to home: the owners of our beloved Laurel Diner, home of the best hashed-browns on earth, have agreed to let me write a story about them!
Of course a project like this requires copious research. We branched out from our usual orders (Peter and Stephanie say that for a lot of their customers, all they need is to see them walk in the door and they automatically know what to cook; we are slaves to their egg sandwiches and corned-beef hash) with the “broccoli ham-scram,” the fluffiest scrambled eggs ever, loaded with goodies:
And quite possibly the best burger ever, with fried onions and pickles. Grilled in butter, if you please. “They’re like butter, is the only way I can describe them,” Stephanie promises, and she’s dead right.
I’ll be working on the story all this week, which may require… another trip. Duty calls.
Well, neighbor Mark’s just stuck his head in the back door to invite us to a fireworks display and cocktail party this evening, so I had better love you and leave you. Lazy July needs me. If I hear any more news from our Spy-in-the-Making, I’ll let you know.
Being home at Red Gate on 4th of July .… magical! What fun and interesting company. I had a place very similar as a child and it will always be my happy place. Lake Freeman, IN back in the 70s and 80s was free of lawn chemical runoff. We water skied all day long… At night we ate at a formal table and listened to our adult playmates talk “shop”. Subjects ranged from plastic surgery to journalism. Political leaders planted potatoes, authors fixed propellers and got bit by huge ‚HUGE< spiders… Whatta blast at Red Gate Farms… What an interesting part of the country, the food and the food!!!!! ahhhhh…
Susan, I seriously need a blog of YOUR life! More details, please, at least when we meet in August after 40 years…