last festivities
We all woke up this morning with the distinct sensation that real life had begun again, after the myriad joys of the holiday. January 2. It sounds distressingly ordinary!
Actually, that’s not true. I for one am ready for a bit of ordinary. We’ve been rushed off our feet with all the plans each of us made for our holiday season, sometimes piling on top of each other, making it feel as if the days were pushing each other rudely off the calendar in a rush of activity.
Part of the fun of Christmas, for me, is being invited to see other people’s decorations! At least, the invitation is ostensibly to dinner, or for coffee or champagne, but I waste no time in sidling up to people’s trees to investigate their ornaments, or to mantels above flickering fires to see the ever-fascinating displays of Christmas cards, their cousins’s cousins’ children’s photos. I love the variety of everyone’s table settings, Christmas crackers, place settings!
The joys of being cooked for, sitting at a beautifully decorated table surrounded by laughing friends. Oh, the standing ribs of beef, the creamy potatoes Dauphinoise with chives, the roasted cheesy cauliflower at my friend Elspeth’s festive house, Christmas trees glittering, hung with dozens of red ribbons.
I spent one quiet afternoon all alone when John took Avery off to see “Yes, Prime Minister,” a theatre version of the classic British telly series, updated to reflect current politics (apparently to David Cameron’s open annoyance as Prime Minister!). I sat quietly watching an old movie, covered with a fuzzy throw and a tortoiseshell cat, with the tree flickering to the side. How I will hate to dismantle it!
We woke up on the morning of the 30th, our 23rd wedding anniversary, full of anticipation of our annual celebratory lunch at Nobu, the sushi-fest of our entire year. But as we asked Avery to take our photograph, I noticed she was dead-white. Absolutely the color of paper. “I don’t feel very good,” she whispered, and off she went, back to bed with an upset stomach and chills. “Man proposes, and God disposes,” ran through my mind from the old Lord Peter Wimsey story, and it sometimes does feel that someone up there wants to remind us that we’re not in charge.
Ah, well, it was but the work of a moment for John to ring up and change our reservation to the following day, as I was certainly not going to enjoy an extravagant lunch out with the poor patient left at home to suffer. And it was just as well, because later that day John announced he felt awful, too, and there ensued several hours of worry and deliveries of Sprite and crackers. But in the way of these things, by evening everyone was ready for one more helping of medicinal chicken soup and all was normal once again.
Nobu the next day! A rain-spattered, chilly, unpleasant New Year’s Eve Day, but nothing could spoil our fun.
How we wished for the afternoon to last forever! It is simply the best restaurant on earth, in our opinion. There is nothing quite so luxurious, for me, as being fed dishes I could never, never make at home. Yellowtail tuna with jalapenos and coriander in a tart, citrusy dressing, toro with caviar swimming in a spicy sauce, suspended over crushed ice. A wonderful concoction called “soft shell crab harumaki,” which means spring roll, but WHAT a spring roll! Deep-fried soft shell crab, tiny flecks of chive, tiny diced red peppers, all wrapped in the most delicate of super-crunchy pastry, on a pool of wasabi mayonnaise and thick sweet soy. I could never dream of making such a thing! Perhaps the best example of this phenomenon was the classic rock shrimp tempura in creamy, spicy sauce.
Now you might remember my forays recently into making this dish at home (scroll down through the post for the recipe!). It was jolly successful, very tasty. But honey, it was NOT NOBU. There is an ineffable difference between my amateurish grasp of tempura, my blunderings with the proportions of sauce to shrimp, just my ineptness in general that I would never have noticed if I hadn’t eaten the real thing. The key, I think, is in the razor-sharp line between the shrimp being undercooked and being JUST cooked. Heaven.
We indulged in our usual anniversary games of “what was the best play you saw this year?” and “what are you proudest of this year?” and “what would you like to have accomplished by the next time we sit down to this dish?” Twenty-three years of those discussions! Amazing.
Home to hoover up yet another several thousand needles from under the tree. Hermione the tabby insists on playing underneath the tree, batting at the ornaments, waving her tail to and fro under the branches. And at this advanced date, all you have to do is LOOK at the tree and it drops needles. We lit all the candles and brought out the champagne glasses and the doorbell rang: John and Suzanne come bravely through the drizzle, all the way from next door, to share our New Year’s Eve. What friends they are.
It was a typical me-party, I realized. Lots of candles, pretty napkins, wonderful friends, and a cooking disaster. Do NOT try to make parmesan shortbread with gluten-free flour! John and Avery tasted them before the party began. I offered a disclaimer. “First of all, I warn you, you can’t pick them up. They disintegrate in a most unexpected way.” “Into powder!” John agreed. “They stick to the roof of your mouth very oddly,” Avery said. “Oh, forget it,” I gave in, and rummaged through the fridge for an alternative. Luckily, also typical-me, there was plenty to choose from. We sat down to creamy roasted salmon mousse, Boursin cheese with black pepper, Moroccan oil-cured olives, crisp crackers. No problem.
John and Suzanne had celebrated their anniversary the day before ours and had kindly brought over their wedding album, which I went through avidly. So sweet to see their children, now parents themselves, as children! John recited awful jokes from the family’s Christmas crackers. “What sort of pizza does King Wenceslas like? Deep and crisp and even.” “What has a neck but cannot swallow? A bottle.” There are endless lists of these, just so you know! Some of them require a degree of fluency in being English, to be funny. “What do you get when you cross a cat with a chemist? Puss in Boots.”
Off they went to their dinner party, off Avery went to her New Year’s sleepover. We settled down for an extremely glamorous supper of leftover chilli, but so what? Lunch had been Nobu!
New Year’s Day found us joining our friend Emily and a clutch of teenaged girls, in a crowded, chaotic pub in the village, surrounded by families with lots of adorable English apple-cheeked children, harried staff and… Hayley Mills! She hasn’t changed much since “The Parent Trap.” Cool celebrity sighting, although arguably not quite as cool as Robert Pattinson who had been in the night before. Fair enough. Burgers, fish and chips and a lot of incomprehensible quotations-in-tandem by the girls of television dialogue, movie dialogue, Shakespeare, and Carol Channing movie quotes as interpreted by stand-up comics.
Totally unlike Nobu, the food was only so-so and I in fact could possibly have done it better! But John and I agreed later that as long as you know what you want from an experience, it doesn’t always have to be perfect. That day, in the thin midwinter afternoon sunlight, we wanted to be out of the house, surrounded by our girls, watching them laugh and be happy, on New Year’s Day.
And finally, it was our last adventure of the holidays: “Cabaret”! It was fun to come from having read “Goodbye to Berlin” (a truly dismal book with wildly unlikable characters, I thought, although Avery was more enthusiastic) and seen “I Am A Camera” (much more enjoyable than the book largely due to amazing performances and perfect casting) to this dizzying delight! First of all, the Savoy Theatre is a must for anyone who loves London because it’s adjacent to the Savoy Hotel, one of the coolest, most iconic spots in this wonderful city.
Excitingly for the understudy, the actor normally playing the central character, the narrator, was ill. One can only imagine the understudy’s supply of airborne flu germs! Oh, the drama of a real West End musical.
And that was that. One last celebration. Home to settle in for the coming week which will mean for me, taking down the tree, for John, desperately trying to save our investments from the “fiscal cliff” (how I can’t wait never to hear that phrase again!), and for poor Avery, the dreaded “revision” for the upcoming GCSE mock exams. Eighteen “mocks” now and 27 “real exams” in June! So much work. I plan to cook whatever she wants for dinner, for the duration. It’s about all I can do to help.
Perhaps we’ll find time for a quiet pleasure along the lines of this Christmas present from me to her: a puzzle of the tops of the cupcakes she had for her birthday!
How many layers of craziness is this? Book covers in icing, turned into a photo, then turned into a puzzle, then a photo of the puzzle! I think we have squeezed every ounce of enjoyment from that birthday present that could ever be squeezed.
Perhaps I can find another silly, semi-athletic, mostly hilarious event for charity for us to do, like the pre-Christmas Santa Run for Home-Start! We had so much fun on that crisp, sunny day, running/walking 5K through glorious Greenwich Park. How many Santas does it take to pay a social-worker?
Through it all, miraculously we have all been spared the Winter Womiting Wirus, I mean Vomiting Virus, that has felled over 1 million Brits. Fingers crossed, hands washed. Someday this month-long cold I have been slogging through will be over. In the meantime, 2013 has begun, a year that promises to bring adventures with our plot of dirt in Southwark, with the cookbook Avery and I are working on, with new recipes to experiment with and people to feed.
Avery, John and I wish you and yours the happiest and healthiest of New Years!
I get it! The puss in the boots joke!, I get it!
Love that the thread through the entire holiday post was one of friends and family. You guys do that very well.
Happy 2013’
xxxx,
John’s Mom
How glamorous your life sounds! Theater visits, exotic restaurants, parties with elegant friends and neighbors — while Andy shovels snow — we have had more snow in the last two weeks than all last winter and I watch Days of Our Lives. I don’t know how we stand the excitement! Keep up your fun life and take care of yourselves. How I wish I could eat that shrimp right off the computer screen!
Love, Mom
Kristen, I need a nap after reading about your whoosh of holiday activities. Your line about the days pushing each other rudely off the calendar in a rush of activity makes me laugh. It’s so true and such a great visual.
We have the same little ornament place card holders, and it just so happens that we used them on Christmas Eve when our British friends were here for dinner. How about that?! I made my first standing rib roast that night and was thrilled with the results.
The kids returned to school today and I spent most of the time packing up the Christmas decorations. It’s all packed, but I’m doing one final check of the house before we haul everything up to the attic.
Happy New Year to you and your lovely family, Kristen. I loved reading about your holidays!
We DID have a rather glamorous holiday season! Today it’s back to normal, sweeping up needles and trying to contemplate taking down the tree… Karen, I’d be so scared to cook a standing rib! You must tell me your method. Happy New Year to all!