or she could just stay in London…
On this hot, hot, HOT Wednesday afternoon, we all converged on Avery’s one London choice of universities: The London School of Economics and Political Science, known throughout the world as simply “LSE.”
One of the “colleges” of the University of London, it’s just what it says on the tin, a true “London School.” Set in the middle of Aldwych, a funny little island in the London borough of Westminster (can’t get much more central than that), it’s bustling with urban life, spread out among many buildings a brisk walk from Holborn Tube station. The passersby are a motley assortment of obvious local businesspeople, students, and the odd tourist probably looking for Trafalgar Square.
Avery, fresh from a morning’s tour of the Houses of Parliament (“Everything in the House of Lords is gold leaf”), and we, not so fresh from a session mentoring girls at school who want to run a stall at next year’s Christmas Fair, arrived at LSE separately. She took herself off to a taster History lecture and we repaired to a daunting parental discussion of financial aid. Brilliantly, here in the UK student loans’ payback is directly tied to the post-graduation income of the student in question. You make £21,000 or less? Payback is halted until your income goes up. Very civilised, and so different from the punishing life of an American student laboring under the weight of six-figure debt in perpetuity.
The prospective students surging out from the lectures were by far the most diverse-looking of any group we’d seen so far at university visits, as befits a city setting, we supposed. A positive box to tick, for LSE.
We set out in the broiling sun to walk along the Embankment.
Then we crossed the Thames at Blackfriars Bridge to land south of the river at Bankside, the neighborhood stretching from that Bridge to London Bridge, where some of the LSE student housing is located. Interestingly, every single first-year student is guaranteed London accommodation, even if her parents are living right in Central London. Thank goodness, because it would be a definite deal-breaker if Avery were forced to live at home.
The accommodation couldn’t have been more urban, less like a college campus.
In the debate called “to stay in London or not to stay in London,” the citified, apartment-block nature of the accommodation was definitely in LSE’s favor. The puce-coloured kitchen walls, the soul-destroying overhead fluorescent lighting? Not so much. But the bedroom’s ceilings were high and the windows generous. We stood about self-consciously, the parents and their children, each trying to imagine the future, set not in our cosy, personal homes, but in these little random boxes which it will be our kids’ job to make their own.
To put LSE in perspective with our future home-to-be, we taxied over to the erstwhile “plot of nettles and dirt,” to find THIS amazing sight.
The next-door building project has rented our little plot of land from us to use as a parking lot, until we begin to break ground. It was quite stunning to see the bit of land not so much as a wild, untamed, garbagey rectangle where foxes sleep perchance to dream, and more a nice flat piece of real estate on which to build a house.
Finally we walked wearily to the Tube, then to the train, then the hot walk home, our heads filled not so much with sugarplums as with almost impossible visions of our futures stretching out: a home without Avery, a new home we can’t even envision yet, a vista of university choices now supplemented by a London option. We all felt quite overwhelmed, ready to come in out of the sun, rest our tired feet and imaginations, down a few hundred glasses of cold, cold water.
And because there is not rest for the wicked, tomorrow will take us, bright and early, to Oxford. The jewel in the crown of the university world, one might think (Oxford certainly thinks), and a fitting end to our journeys across the country in search of Avery’s future. But first, a nice summertime barbecued veal chop.
The Ultimate Barbecue Sauce, For a Nice Veal Chop
(serves 4)
4 1‑inch thick rose veal chops (the humane sort, from happy little calves)
for the marinade (allow 7 hours, no cheating)
about 250g/1/2 lb each: mango, papaya, pineapple, peeled, seeded and cut in chunks
large knob ginger, peeled
8 cloves garlic, peeled
5 small red Thai chillis, or to taste
4 stems fresh thyme, leaves only
for barbecue sauce:
extra marinade, plus leftover from marinating bag
200g/7 oz ketchup
40g/1/1/2 dark brown sugar
2 tbsps Worcestershire sauce
cayenne pepper to taste
large pinch salt
large pinch fresh ground pepper
In a small food processor, pulverize all marinade ingredients until smooth as possible. Smother veal chops in marinade and place in zippered plastic bag. Reserve any extra marinade, in a small saucepan. Refrigerate chops for 3 hours, then turn over, massaging plastic bag to coat all meat. Refrigerate a further 3 hours or longer, then remove from refrigerator for 1 hour before cooking the chops.
Pour the leftover marinade from the plastic bag into the saucepan containing the extra marinade. Add the barbecue sauce ingredients. Cook over a low heat, covered, for at least 15 minutes.
Heat grill to 425F/220C and place chops on grill, coat first side with barbecue sauce, and grill for 4 minutes, then turn and coat the second side and grill for a further 4 minutes. Repeat the barbecue procedure once more per side, cooking for about 2 minutes each side until done to your desired doneness. Rest for a few minutes, then slice each chop on the bias and serve with the rest of the barbecue sauce.
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Then we’ll get a good night’s sleep, and up again for the next adventure.
That recipe looks delicious, I love veal chops.
Avery can always do her MA in Birmingham, her PHD in Edinburgh. and get her TAT from Harvard. She is a PRIME City gal to the core Her brains can take her anywhere she wants to go! xxx
Avoid throwing the stones at her window and food parcels hoists. If they don’t suffer from at least one bout of Botulism at some point in their postgrad education, then they haven’t really lived away from home long enough!
I feel your pain of the empty nest syndrome already. :(
They were amazing, falling apart from the enzymes in the marinade. Try it!
Wow, you could draw a really good hopscotch game on Potters Field now. Oh, wait, Avery’s looking at universities not middle schools. Sigh. Couldn’t we rewind the tape and have do overs?
Is that recipe John’s one foray into the meat/fruit arena?
xx, John’s Mom
Rosie Writer in Residence, you’ve really got Avery’s number! Total education forever is her motto. And I promise to leave her alone… sometimes. :) John’s mom, you got it! He can’t believe it’s his one recipe. And don’t get me started on Avery do-overs. Yes please…
What an exciting time for your family! We are on the same journey with our girl. Early June saw us in Ann Arbor for a day of discovery at the University of Michigan – our daughter has set her sights on the University’s School of Nursing. Now starts the early application process, and like you, we should have word by Christmas time if she is accepted. Some of U of M’s buildings have a striking resemblance to Oxford – especially the law library and quadrangle. Should be an exciting senior year (or the equivalent in the UK) for both of our girls! Fall of 2015 promises to be a roller coaster of emotions for us parents as our children are launched into the next phase of their lives. Here’s to soaking up and cherishing all of the wonderful memories of their last year at home!
Jo, that’s so exciting for your daughter… yes, indeed, we must enjoy every bit of the coming year as our children fly away from us, because no matter how exciting the future looks, the present is pretty wonderful too!