the best of times
In a summer that’s as crowded with action as they all are, I’m savoring a rare moment of total solitude. The sun is shining, the horses are snuffling in the meadow, and I can hear a bit of lunchtime activity across the road, but I’m all alone. John and Avery have defied the gorgeous day and have taken themselves off to see a movie, promising to bring me any leftover popcorn.
Part of my aloneness is regretful, because John’s mom has gone home. The two weeks of her visit flew by in whirl of activity. In a blur of heat the first few days, we visited the farmer’s market for divinely sweet heirloom tomatoes.
These, along with incredibly fresh local goat cheese, chives and cucumbers, made a gorgeous salad.
But the real winner of the market was a bottle (too small!) of Tuscan Herb olive oil, from the local Olive Oil Factory. As the lovely standholder explained, “The olive oil is bottled locally and flavored with herbs grown locally, and then I sell them here at your market. You’re helping everyone!” Fragrant with oregano, garlic, rosemary and basil, it made the perfect salad.
John’s mom’s summer visits always follow the same dear pattern. We scrub and arrange and beautify, in advance of her arrival, and head to the sweet local airport to pick her up. This time it felt odd not to have Avery with us — still in Washington on her political adventure. We settle her into the cozy guest room.
The next day we gather up our library books and head out to the terrace for the first of many sunlit afternoons, with the birds and chipmunks and squirrels providing drama, and the occasional small airplane buzzing overhead. We begin talking about all the things we’ve been storing up since we last saw each other — what’s happening in Iowa, our plans for the cookbook, what Avery’s been up to in Washington, what to have for dinner. We bask in the illusion that there will be time to talk about everything, that it will go on forever. It’s a very peaceful spot.
She is the kind of listener who makes you feel that everything you think is worth saying! Whether we’re chopping garlic together, grocery shopping together or folding laundry, my life feels more interesting and worth living than it does without her. When she comes with us to the tennis court — just to watch and offer encouragement — we play better! And she’s there to enjoy the Grumpy Old Men on the adjacent court.
Finally the day came to get Avery back. John’s sister planned a business trip to give her an extra day to come see us, happily overlapping with Avery’s homecoming. Cathy falls under the spell of the terrace too.
Off we went to pick up Avery in Bridgeport on a blindingly steamy day, and to bring her home. How heavenly to have her back.
What we did not know on that halcyon first day was that she had gone to Washington with a case of Lyme disease. When she sent me a message to say she had a headache and was exhausted, I’m afraid I put it down to the crazy round of activity that was her life in DC, on her two consecutive week-long intelligence and politics conferences. In those two weeks of simulations, she was Vice-President managing a West Coast power blackout, a prison riot and several downed jumbo jetliners (and was voted President in the next election!), and then she was campaign manager for a Presidential candidate, which involved writing a complex healthcare bill and fielding nasty attack ads from the opponent, and eventually seeing her candidate win the election. Seventeen-hour work days, all with Lyme disease.
We finally got her to the doctor and on a regime of pills, thank goodness. But she powered through the crisis with admirable devotion to duty. Think what she could accomplish running on all cylinders! The mind boggles.
Happily, she regained her health and appetite long enough to tuck into (and photograph, of course) her grandmother’s gift of lemon bars, brought as carry-on luggage all the way from Iowa.
How wonderful to have her home to capture all the lovely things going in and out of our kitchen, this time a fresh crab salad for lunch.
(serves 4)
8 ounces/226g fresh lump crabmeat
1 small or 1/2 large red or orange pepper, diced small
2 stalks celery, diced small
zest and juice of 1 lemon
2 tbsps mayonnaise
fresh black pepper
handful chives, minced
Place the crab and peppers in a medium bowl. Mix the lemon zest and juice with the mayonnaise and pepper. Toss with the crab and pepper, then sprinkle over the chives. This salad is lovely with little crackers, toasted baguette, anything crunchy.
Our cookbook, “Ladle to Lens: A Collaboration in the Kitchen,” is well underway, with its own Facebook page! Do go, visit, and leave us a comment. We are beginning the search for a publisher now. We are gradually realizing — with the help of various dinner and lunch guests who see the process — that the transition from fresh ingredients to finished dish, then from photograph to dinner table, is absolutely pure. Nothing is doctored to make it look unnaturally pretty. So many food photographers manipulate what’s on the plate to achieve a miraculous (and false) image, that I am hoping our project will stand out for its honesty.
Finally there came a cold, rainy day and Avery, John and his mom decided to take themselves off to see a movie in a nearby town. I seized the opportunity to stay home alone, putter around the empty house, and even be responsible for what’s usually John’s job: grilling the dinner! For this feast of barbecued chicken, no side dish would do but:
Grandpa Jack’s Grilled Potato Parcel
(serves 4)
1 stick/112g softened butter
4 large or 8 small potatoes (Yukon Gold or plain red will do)
1 Vidalia (sweet) onion
fresh black pepper
Lay out a very large sheet of heavy duty aluminum foil on the counter and smear soft butter over an inside square about 12 inches wide, leaving plenty of empty space around the edges.
I like to peel the potatoes (John would rather I didn’t). You can choose. Then slice them quite thin, to your liking. Slice the onions the same thickness.
Arrange a layer of potatoes on the buttered foil, topping with a layer of onions and a sprinkle of Fox Point and black pepper. Dot with pieces of butter. Repeat until you run out of ingredients. Bring two edges of the foil together and crimp the edges to make a seam. Crimp the two resulting ends, making a large, flat parcel with one top and two side seams.
Heat your grill (or oven, for that matter) to 425F/220C. Place the parcel inside taking great care not to pierce the foil (hence the heavy duty foil). Grill/bake for about 45 minutes. Obviously you cannot check to see if the cooking is going well because it’s important not to pierce the foil. It’s a bit of an adventure! Open and enjoy.
(They are prettier before they’re cooked!)
As these cooked, I relished the quiet late afternoon on my terrace, because as soon as everyone else had gone off to the movie, the sun came out! I sat alone, watching the huge maple tree’s leaves drip slowly dry in the heat. Our solar-powered Queen Elizabeth found the strength to wave her hand at anyone who might pass by.
Our super neighbors, Anne, David and Kate (and even sister Alice!) have been in residence across the road, on and off. David and John have ambitious plans for the not-so-charmingly-derelict mailboxes that have graced our little road for probably a century. Yank ’em out and start over is my advice, but they think a spot of restoration is in order. Watch this space: men and power tools.
Just now, this quiet and bright afternoon, Tricia stopped by with her usual unbelievably generous basket of vegetables from her garden, and an even nicer gift, Rollie the Third, come for a visit.
Rollie is a real farmer’s son (and grandson) and as such was very keen to see what tractors I might have on hand. Anxious not to disappoint, I opened up the Little Red Barn and introduced him to Quincy, the ancient Land Rover. Kate came along, and it turned out that Quincy was a very popular destination. Two happy little kids.
Summer would not be complete without reuniting with Olimpia and Tony, of course, who made the long drive from upstate to have lunch with us. The chicken burgers looked even more delicious than usual on Olimpia’s gift to me, a gorgeous glass platter.
The burgers were further enlivened by Olimpia’s homemade pesto, rich with basil, parsley and spinach. Her Italian touch is something I cannot manage to replicate. It’s typical of Olimpia that even as a guest, she contributes the bit to the meal that makes it sing.
We simply sat all afternoon and visited. We heard tales of their recent Italian adventure along the Amalfi coast, and their even more recent sojourn to Prince Edward Island. Tales that made Red Gate Farm seem a bit tame, but we wouldn’t have it any other way. A lovely day.
We have waited all summer to hear from the shelter about the possibility of fostering, as Avery does nearly every summer. (I had such fun reading these old posts, even though the blog transition to WordPress a few years ago lost ALL the comments and pixelated the photos. Never mind, it’s the words that count.) The shelter lady tormented us with email exchanges like this:
“Would you be interested in fostering a mother and five nursing kittens?”
“YES!”
“Monday could be the day for you to pick them up!!!”
Except that it WASN’T. For several Mondays and at least one Friday, we were wound up to a fever pitch of excitement, only to be told there weren’t any kittens who had been “cleared.” For takeoff, I wondered? No, for a pro bono vet visit to determine that they were virus- and flea-free.
Finally this week, the hotly anticipated email came.
“How about 4 o’clock today?”
It was but the work of a moment to gather up the kitty prison and drive off. An hour later, we were home with a nursing mom and four week-old kittens. On the journey Avery had read aloud from the manual the shelter gave us. “We should wait two to three days to handle them, it says,” she read. Sure.
There are two little black ones, a ginger one, and a multi-colored creature that looks more like a ferret or a duckling than a cat. After much discussion, we have named the mom Ivy. She is a teenage mom, whose anxious eyes tell of the horror of the last few weeks of her life, pregnant and alone, in the wild. The family were left on the doorstep of the shelter, in a box.
She is calming down, gradually, although she still greets us with occasional protective hisses.
The two little black ones have been named Darcy and Dickens, and they are pretty much unbelievably adorable.
The smudgy one is called Mulder. Some of you, dear readers, will know what this means.
Can you just believe the charm of this fellow, tucked between his mother’s toes?
And then there is Ripley. There are no words, really.
Even though Ivy copes valiantly with the almost-constant demands for nursing (they will nurse upside down while she stands at her dish and tries to eat) and the mewling and rolling about of her infants, there is also a surprisingly long list of tasks for her humans to perform as well: regular deliveries of wet food and clean water, changing out the newspaper and soft pad on which they sleep, cleaning Ivy’s litter box (a favorite place for her to sleep, so far, my theory being it’s too tall for her babies to climb over the edge and get to her).
Kate came over to wonder at them. “Why is Ivy in the litter box?” “I think she needs some mom-alone time, Kate.” Pause. “But she’s the mommy, and they’re her babies. She can’t have alone time.” On her mother Anne’s behalf I pointed out that everyone, even moms, needs alone time. She was skeptical.
It was hard for John’s mom to pack up and leave them, I mean “us.” We cooked one last delicious dinner of grilled scallops, marinated in my precious Tuscan herb olive oil and lime juice.
John’s mom flew away. To console ourselves on her absence, Avery and I drove up to see Jane in her summer-camp play, “The Mattatuck Button Factory,” a musical, mind you, all about labor disputes and complex discussions of workers’ rights and choices in fasteners, set to music. I know.
My sister and I got into our usual trouble whenever we’re audience members together: uncontrollable laughter. At least this time it was justified and almost appropriate, and Avery joined in. Jane was superb, of course. Never mind that the enormous buttons commissioned by a local giant (I know) didn’t have holes. It’s theatre.
August has reared its beautiful head now, and we’ll see what adventures the next month has in store for us. As long as it goes by slowly, I’m not choosy.
Gosh, poor Avery! And to have survived it for two weeks “alone”! Corinne got a tick in California, but I think I got it out right away — and therefore Lymes unlikely. I hope.
What a great summer we are having. I am jealous of myself!
Kim, she was so intrepid. Is there Lyme in CA? John… I knew you loved those kittens. :)
Oh POOR Avery, I’m so sorry to hear about her Lyme’s. My oldest had it 4 years ago and it went a month undiagnosed until he developed Bell’s Palsy — which went away after treatment fortunately. Best advice is to stay completely out of the sun when taking Doxycycline. Best wishes for a speedy recovery!
Gee, that’s funny — reading Maura’s post — my brother had the same experience a few years ago — Bell’s Palsy undoubtedly caused by Lyme’s.…gosh Kristen — I am so sorry to hear she’s contracted it — sending all very best wishes for a speedy and full recovery — John’s sister really looks like her mom! XXXX Jo
Oh, Maura, how dreadful. I am so glad we caught it early, although she had a week of misery before she got home. She’s feeling fine now! Jo, I never see the resemblance between John’s sister and mum, but I’ll have to look now. See you soon…
Oh my gosh, Lyme’s — it is so good you caught this early. I make a Russian style crab salad — unfortunately usually with canned — with cooked rice and chopped pickles — I love any kind of seafood salad on a soft roll. Oh, and this line: “We bask in the illusion that there will be time to talk about everything, that it will go on forever.” Just beautiful — that is how I feel every day…
Mmm, that Russian crab salad sounds good, Work. I’ve missed you!