University Number 1
I can’t believe that a week has gone by — solidly booked with the stuff of daily life, with a few infusions of excitement — since our milestone trip: the first university visit!
Edinburgh… by train, such a relaxing way to make the journey, through fields of new lambs and bright red poppies, which once seen, I was obsessed with recording on film, only to have them rush by unappreciated as I tried to unlock my phone. A life lesson: sometimes it’s nicer actually to experience something in real time, than to completely miss it by trying to save it forever.
We arrived at the flat John had rented for the two days and nights of our stay, and coordinated with Elspeth and Minnie that we’d all rather eat in and relax than put our tired feet to the pavement one more time that day. A roasted chicken by the light of the tealights I’d brought with me, was the perfect solution, in that kitchen with the lovely Scottish urban view.
In the morning we headed straight to the University to be seated in the massive Victorian hall for a welcome chat, looking around us in awe at the surroundings.
Then it was off to visit the stall for the Politics Department and to have Avery’s questions about the Joint Honours programme answered (in short, she would be in complete heaven if we were simply to get back on the train and leave her there to begin uni right now). A completely inspiring talk by one of the politics professors in a very impressively modern lecture hall (more heaven), a nasty lunch and a brilliant talk by the Head of History left us all convinced that Edinburgh is a definite possibility.
“You may choose to spend your third year abroad, in a country whose language you speak,” the Head intoned. “I have heard tell of countries, as well, where a version of English is purportedly spoken. America, Australia, even Canada.”
We tried not to have this optimism utterly dashed by the soul-destroying fluorescent strip lighting of the unspeakably banal student accommodations. She’ll be too busy thinking to hate her room, we hope.
We meandered home in a disconsolate drizzle, walking over this lovely circular installation in the ground of the library’s forecourt. Thoughts to ponder.
I’d love to tell you that we repaired to one of Edinburgh’s fabulous restaurants (there must be some) for a memorable meal out, but we didn’t. We were exhausted. Home for a completely delicious, completely simple “rented flat with no pantry” stir-fry, containing the minimum of ingredients to buy and leave behind. Compromise and buy oyster sauce, just this once. I won’t tell.
Dead Simple Chicken and Broccoli Stir-fry with Fried Mushroom Rice
(serves 6)
6 chicken breast fillets
1 bottle (150ml, about 1/2 cup) oyster sauce
several generous shakes soy sauce
6 cloves garlic, minced
2 bunches spring onions, sliced (green parts too)
1‑inch knob ginger, peeled and minced
1 large head broccoli, separated into bite-size florets
2 red bell peppers, cut into bite-size chunks
2 tbsps groundnut or vegetable oil
6–8 medium brown mushrooms, diced
4 eggs, beaten
1 1/2 cups/300g basmati rice, steamed
2 tbsps soy sauce, or to taste
handful roasted cashews, roughly chopped (optional)
handful cilantro leaves (optional)
Trim the chicken and slice VERY thin on the bias, then place in a bowl with the oyster sauce, the first 2 tbsps soy sauce and the garlic, one bunch of sliced spring onions, and the ginger. Stir well to coat chicken and leave aside while you prepare everything else.
Stir-fry the chicken until JUST cooked, then remove to a serving bowl, leaving as much of the sauce behind as possible. In this sauce, cook the broccoli and peppers till they are slightly softened. Add the vegetables to the chicken in the serving bowl, toss till mixed, and cover with a lid or foil to keep hot.
In the same pan, add the oil and stir-fry the mushrooms until just softened. Push the mushrooms to one side and add the beaten eggs to the empty side and scramble. Throw in the steamed rice and stir-fry mushrooms, eggs and rice together, sprinkling with soy sauce. Serve at once with the still-hot chicken and vegetables. Top with the cashews and cilantro, if using.
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So comforting; almost as comforting as the back-to-back episodes of “W1A” that we watched until we cried with laughter. Cups of tea and to sleep, deeply tired with all we’d seen and learned.
Next day saw us full of energy again, ready to be tourists for a bit. We wandered through the streets to the castle, a bit in awe of its bulk, its age, its lofty perch.
Such inviting little winding streets! Bookshops, tourists shops filled with tea towels I wanted, and in one window a WHOLE roasted hog, simply dripping with hot fat, ready to be piled in a roll. I wish we had had more time.
We did take the time to climb up to the castle itself, just for the views. It was far too crowded with tourists to stay, but the girls were happy in the sunshine.
We climbed down again and repaired to Mary’s Milk Bar, nothing more or less than a completely charming, 1950s-style ice cream parlor, with the best salted caramel milkshakes in the world. And I don’t even “do” milkshakes.
Back to the flat to pack up and say goodbye, to a lovely stay in a lovely university town.
We talked almost nonstop in the train on the way home, with so much new imagery, so many new ideas, such a bright future to plan for the girls. Elizabeth looked appropriately summery and contemplative.
I went to sleep that night in my own bed in Barnes, feeling unspeakably lucky to have such friends to accompany us on a great adventure, to help usher in a new chapter of all our lives. How is it possible that Avery is nearly 18, and that we are contemplating her moving away, beginning her own life? Good grief, I * remember* being nearly 18, and not nearly as mature or well-behaved as Avery. How I’d love to be a fly on the wall (well, maybe not her student accommodation wall, what with the fluorescent lighting and all, but SOME wall) to see how she gets on at university, the fun she has, the professors whose seminars she’ll grace.
Tuesday evening saw the three of us at school being talked at about Oxford and Cambridge, mostly, the intense competition to get a place, the decisions of which college within each university to consider, the work that these budding historians will be expected to produce in order to apply. I felt overwhelmed by it all, and it isn’t even my life. Avery takes it all in stride.
Watch this space, because there are more trips to come! Onward and upward: Birmingham next up…
I am watching with bated breath…wicked excited for Avery. Selfishly hoping for Edinburgh, but in all honesty, knowing that I want Avery to be where she will enjoy and excel. Sigh.
Shelley, I know JUST how you feel! Wishing just that she end up where she will be happiest… Sigh.
Very exciting and full of heart-warming messages. I wish the best of all for the *budding historian* Avery. I believe It’s very wise to contemplate and live these moments till the last second. When I was her place I had to think long and hard over what to do in the next 6 years (well actually till the rest of my life), weighing the benefits vs. anything else. Wonderful recipes, luxurious words, and elegant pictures. “Within books our reading remains alive”, maybe it’s an omen, who knows!
Lovely, Yehya, thank you for your good wishes. Your decision to become a doctor must have come with such heavy weight. I hope Avery is as fulfilled in what she chooses to do!
Kristen, I hope she is considering at least a couple of universities back in the US: Harvard and Yale are worth considering!!!
Work, no, she’s exclusively a UK kind of girl. We’ve learned so much. The US is great for a student who wants the “liberal arts” education, but her experience has been that she’s basically had that in high school and is really ready to specialize. The UK is very tough for students who don’t know yet what their strong interests are and need to spend some years canvassing what’s out there. But she’s firmly history and politics and doesn’t need to spend any time looking around. We’re not sorry to avoid US costs either, to be honest! Her school strongly discourages what’s called “dual track,” looking both here and in the US, as the requirements and processes are completely different and can apparently tear families apart in the search; the pressure to conform to both systems is punishing. All grist for the mill!
An interesting topic for debate. I of course have some pretty strong views on this — the thing about a place like Harvard is that it can accommodate both a student who is a brilliant generalist but not yet decided, and someone who is very focused. The flexibility is what makes it so fabulous, because it is completely what you make of it. The institution is infinitely rich (and I don’t mean monetarily). But I do understand what they are saying. To me the main drawback would be that she would be so far away.
Oh, my best friend did his undergrad at Birmingham and LOVED it. If you want any advice of what to see/do, I’ll put you in touch. Apparently you have to have the curry or you haven’t lived. :)
Sarah, I don’t know how I just got this comment. We DID have the curry in Birmingham and it was to die for! Is that the same as if you haven’t had it, you haven’t lived? ;)